Joy's Corner of the World

2009-01-24T22:35:00.000-08:00

Happy Weekend to everyone!! We've had a great weekend. Last night we went to EMCA's basketball games. Ashlyn had a great game and we won! She has three games next week.

Today, Ashlyn and I went to the Galleria Mall in Birmingham to continue looking for a Junior/Senior dress. We had looked last weekend and didn't find anything. We went to one of her favorite stores, Jessica McClintock and found exactly what she had been looking for. It's a cocktail-length dress that is swirled gold/creme. It is strapless and she looks amazing in it. We got some lovely big drop diamond earrings, a gold/diamond purse. We didn't see any shoes today; so we'll go look soon. She loves the dress!

We missed Miss America! I was SICK. When did Miss America start coming on in January? I've even had "Miss America" parties. This has been a tradition of mine since I was a little girl. I'd watch it with my Mom and even my Dad would watch it and get up and twirl around horribly and tilt his glasses and act like he was falling down! Since the girls were @ five years old we've always watched "Miss America" together. I was so sad.

We have church tomorrow and then Ashlyn/her basketball team are heading to Auburn to watch the Auburn-Tennessee girls basketball game. Auburn is undefeated!

God bless and have a lovely evening!

Liberty!

2009-01-21T12:18:00.001-08:00

Ben & Ashlyn at football game

At LU/Gardner Webb football game - it was SO cold

Josh, Ben, Ash, Britt

Britt & I

Triple Trouble

Can we have a serious picture?!?

At David's Place - LU

Sweet sisters

Ben & Ashlyn

Hanging at the dorms

Joy here ... backwards again!! This is from November :) Work with me people! As I'm trying to do all this - Brittney and I are "IMing" and I can't do two things at one time I'm learning!! No, I really can! Anyhoooo ... we took Ashlyn, Ben, Josh to "College For A Weekend". We drove ten hours one way! To ride with three teenagers is um ... interesting! It was either really loud or quiet due to them sleeping or listening to their ipods and texting. Why must they text each other when they are right there? We got to LU and got the kids checked into their dorms. Ashlyn stayed with sweet Eliza Harper; a FBC, Jax gal; the boys stayed with some of Elizas' friends. We got checked into our hotel.

Brittney had just moved back to Lynchburg that very week to begin her new job at Liberty - so we got to spend the weekend with her. The kids had a blast! So did we! We weren't with the kids much overall; we'd call/connect with them along the way. Ashlyn feels led to go to LU - we know it's an amazing school - Brittney just graduated from there in May and we have several family members who graduated from there. Our prayer for our girls has been pretty basic and trusting ... God's will 100%. Ashlyn LOVED it; so did the boys. We went to some financial aid seminars, luncheons and got to meet other parents; we saw friends, met new ones.

We all went to the Liberty-Gardner Webb football game; it was freezing cold! We had so much fun and yelled for the Flames. Tim/I used to fly up with Daddy and watch my brother, Jon, play for LU back in the day.

Please pray with us that the Lord will reveal His perfect plan for Ashlyn's life regarding college. This is a crucial age.

2009-01-21T11:47:00.000-08:00

EMCA Wildcats - Ashlyn on right

Ashlyn & Crystal (Captains)

Before game

Ash & I

EMCA Varsity Cheerleaders (missing a couple)

Cheering our girl on

Varsity Cheerleaders

I realize I'm going backwards on this blog - similar to how I feel some days :) These are just a few pictures of where we spend our Friday nights! We have a blast - we are in the stands with our friends and we have to remember WHY we are at the game - to watch our little angels :) We are all glad it's Friday and we act like it! Now it's over and we realize we only have one more year with Ashlyn until she graduates from high school and I can't even stay on this without boohooing! We enjoyed each of our girls activities and supported them in everything they did/do. Great memories!

Happy 2009!!

2009-01-21T10:27:00.000-08:00

Dad, Ashlyn, Mom

Two peas in a pod - Sweet Jon & Carson

Brittney in DC with work

At one of Ashlyn's basketball games.

Good buddy, Renee - at basketball game

Sis-in-law, Leslie - great and wonderful friend!

The love of my life!!

Gag gift from Jim & Leslie - he's such a trooper! You should have seen mine!!

Sweet brother Jim

Ashlyn, Jack, Catherine

Our Christmas babies

Jodi & Mom

Poppy & Brittney

Daddy with the girls

Caroline & Ashlyn

And again ... Caroline wasn't far from my girls!

Mom & I

Brittney opening up her stocking

Ashlyn opening her gifts

Our Christmas dinner - the four of us

OK ... I'm really lagging on this blog and I'm sorry! I do most of my fun time with facebook; but enjoy reading other friends blogs so I'm going to try to get it going! Our Thanksgiving and Christmas was great. For Thanksgiving we went to Dad & Mom's on Wednesday; we spent the night with them; then we ate Thanksgiving with the Williams side at Tim's brother, Randy - he is Pastor of FBC, Cartersville, GA. It's a great town in North Georgia. From there we came home and decorated one tree, did some Christmas shopping with the girls.

Christmas was crazy, busy but great. Brittney flew back down and got to spend the week with us for which we thankful; with her being a "career woman" now - her vacation days are precious to her and we were glad to get to share some of them with her! The Vines gang went to our annual Pigeon Forge cabin week. We all live in four States - do you know how hard it is for us all to be together at one time?!? Crazy!! There are alot of us; it's very loud - but we wouldn't change a thing! We shopped, hung out, ate. Carson and Jack were our main entertainment. The grandkids range from 21 to 3! We had so much fun! I'll post a few pictures. Christmas afternoon I began feeling bad (sore throat, fever). We left the cabins and headed to Tim's Dad's in Georgia. I stayed in the entire day at the hotel and missed the festivities. This is the first one I've missed in 23 years of marriage. I slept all day.

We are right in the throes of Ashlyn's basketball season. She only cheered football this year so it's not been so hectic for her. We enjoy watching her play!

Yesterday I watched a new President be sworn in. I watched a lot of the ceremonies, the balls last night. I've always been intrigued in this part of history for many years. No matter who you voted for; it is our responsibility as Christians to pray for this new President. I know I am - I pray He will make good choices. I have strong concerns regarding the war, abortion, same-sex marriages. We'll see what happens. It was enjoyable to watch, President Obama's daughters are darling - I pray they will be spared as much as possible, the spotlight and just let them "be". Michelle Obama's dress for the Inaugural Balls was lovely. I couldn't help but tear up when I saw President and Mrs. Bush leave for the final time. They handled everything with such grace. I know Texas is looking mighty good to them. President Bush did an amazing job in his eight years. I'm so proud of him. I am praying ... please pray with me! Regardless, God is still God and He is on the throne. He knows what is going on and we can rest in this - I do.

Thank you Brittney for fixing my blog cute; I haven't gotten the hang of it yet to know how to put the cute backgrounds!

God bless you!!

I've been "Me-me'd" ?!? What is that?

2008-10-13T08:36:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone! HAPPY FALL YA'LL!! I did not realize I have not blogged since July. Goodness. Well, today it won't be a full blog ... I'm cleaning the house as we speak - ha ha! Had to stop and take a break. I was given a "meme" by my friend, Tracey, from "Show Me State ... of Mind". She's a riot; so anything I get from her; I must stop and read! I am on facebook for the most part; but will keep up this blog. You'll get a blog from me soon - promise! But ...

I was tagged by RealEstateGirl to do this meme, so here goes. What you are supposed to do is copy/paste, type in your your answers and tag four people in your lists! Don't forget to change my answers to the questions with those of your own.

A) Four places I go over and over
Church
Grocery Store
Ashlyn's sports
Bathroom (like that one Tracey)

B) Four people who e-mail me regularly
Brittney
Family members
Dana
Kara

C) Four of my favorite places to eat
Longhorns
Kabuki
Jason's Deli
Home (if I must)

D) Four places you'd rather be

BEACH (any will do)
Mountains (Gatlinburg/Pigeon Forge)
Anywhere my family is
Home isn't bad either

E) Four TV shows I could watch over and over

Army Wives
House Hunters
The Office
Lifetime Channel

F) Four people I'm tagging

Brittney at Running in high heels
Kim at The Glass View
Cassandra at Momma Needs a Time Out
Jamie at Patrick Paradigms

Jodi's visit

2008-07-12T18:00:00.000-07:00

Out to dinner
Waiting at Outback
Sweet sisters
Heading to church

My sweet sister Jodi came for a visit from Jacksonville. She flew into Birmingham and stayed with us for the week. Dad & Mom came into town for two days. We had a good time. Jodi and I went shopping, watched movies, laughed, went to a fun "Chick Flick" at church. We had a great time together.

We Are Family ...

2008-07-12T17:15:00.001-07:00

The girls are in their own little world together. This Mom loves it!
Brittney and I
Brittney loves her Daddy!
Happy Birthday America!
The girls with their traditional "Old Navy" t-shirts.
Best Buds
Our Sweet Daddy
A lovely sunset from the front door of our condo
Another Daddy's girl
Glad our first-born is here!
I beat her in a game. She always wins - had to document this.
Our baby girl
Heading out to dinner
Ben & Ashlyn at Johnny Rocket's at The Wharf
The Wharf - Gulf Shores
Sweet Sisters
The favorite people in my life!

"That's how we roll"
Picking Brittney up from the airport!
She's here!
The Williams Girls
Our Babies
I'm officially the shortest :)
Mom & Ash
Ben & Ashlyn at LuLu's
Sweet Couple

It is time for a vacation!! We were in need of some time away :) We've had a busy Summer. We went to the beach; our favorite spot. We stayed this year in some condo's right on the beach in Gulf Shores. We had so much fun. We baked in the sun during the day, ate out for dinner each night; then would either go shopping or play games, sit out and watch the sunset. We loved watching the little ones at night go out and look for crabs with their flashlights. It would be pitch dark on the beach and there would be 40-50 flash light everywhere! Ashlyn's boyfriend, Ben, came down for two days. We took them to a new shopping area called "The Wharf". It was fun; there are cute shops, a huge ferris wheel. We took them to Johnny Rockets for dinner and there are little juke boxes at your table. We played some old tunes (when did the Commodores become old?!?) Oh well ... we sang and sang and had fun. Brittney flew into Pensacola from her new job and got to spend a few nights with us. The girls are best friends and you can't separate them when they are together. I love it!! We got to enjoy July 4th on the beach; then after dinner we enjoyed great fireworks on the beach. It was great to spend time together as a family. We didn't want to come home.

Georgia Trip!

2008-07-12T17:00:00.000-07:00

Out to lunch with our friends, The Peeples, who live in Carrollton
Pappasita's - one of our favorite restaurants in Atlanta
After dinner
Mom, Dad & I going to lunch
Yes, my Dad found 'Sugar Plums Tea Room" - way to go Dad!
Sweet Granny Vines - 94 years old!

Hi everyone! I hope you all are having a great Summer! We are even though it is certainly going by too fast. We are down to one month and counting until school begins again. I've enjoyed having Ashlyn home during the Summer (well, she's not been "home" alot). Her social calendar is mind-boggling!! Tim and I took a quick trip up to Georgia. Tim met up with his brother, a Pastor in Cartersville and his Dad for a day together; while I went to hang with Mom & Dad. Ashlyn was at the beach with friends so she didn't get to go. Upon coming into Atlanta; Pappasita's was calling our name!! It's one of our favorite places to eat. Their fajitas are soooo good. We enjoyed our meal then headed to Dad and Mom's to spend the night. The next day I got to spend the day with Dad & Mom (alone); that was fun/rare. We drove all into Rome, Georgia (old stomping grounds for us). We came back into Canton and Dad wanted to take us to a "tea room" he had found! Now ... my Daddy is not a "tea room" kind of guy. But we went and it was great! We joked and joked with him about the "Red Ladies Hat Club". There were red hats hanging for certain ladies groups that meet there. He wouldn't put one on :) From there we drove down to Carrollton to visit with my Granny Vines. She just turned 94. We spent the day with her. We met up with some friends we had known from FBC, Callahan. He is now a Pastor in the Carrollton area. We got to eat lunch with them and spend a few hours with them. It was great to reconnect with people!

Celebrating Tim!

2008-06-17T21:09:00.001-07:00

Sunday was Father's Day and we made it special for Tim. After church we took him to Outback; he's just returned from the Amazon and there were no Outback/Longhorn's there; let me tell ya! He got a steak and was so happy. When we got home he opened his gifts. We both called our Dad's and wished them a Happy Father's Day.

I bought myself a purse for Father's Day - ha ha! BUT isn't it cute? I love it; I love monogrammed things. I ordered this from www.thepolkadotpeach.com. This is a cute shop in Rome, Georgia that some friends had told me about. I went online and saw this. They have good prices and really cute things. I was born in Rome, Georgia; so anything from there is SPECIAL :)

Amazon Missions Trip

2008-06-17T20:53:00.000-07:00

Hi everybody! I hope your week is going good. All is well here in Alabama! I wanted to share with you about Tim's missions trip to the Amazon. He took a group from our church to the Amazon. They went into villages that had never seen white people and had never heard the name of Jesus. This was a wonderful challenge for Tim. The thing in ministry he does best is share Christ. The team saw over 1,000 people come to know the Lord. They were gone for 11 days. They stayed on a houseboat on the Amazon River. They would take smaller boats into different villages to witness/share Christ. Tim said it was so poor, sad. He would go into some homes where there would be many children and very little food. The Lord worked in a wonderful way on this trip. He wants to go again. Our church joined with the IMB for this trip. Thank you for your prayers; even though we missed Tim so much; it is so worth it for souls to be saved. Above are some different pictures from his trip. There are hundreds of pictures but here are just a few. Tim said the sunsets were breathtaking!

Celebrations!

2008-06-11T16:41:00.000-07:00

Ashlyn with her Pappa Doc
My baby brother, Jon and his son, Carson visiting us recently.
My brother Jim and two of his children, Jay and Jack at Water Color on our family vacation last Summer.
Tammy, Lisa, Me, Sherry on a girls night out at Carrabba's. We had a great time as usual!
My new flowers for our dining room table.

Happy 21st birthday Brittney!!
Brittney at her first birthday party.
Dad & Mom celebrating Father's and Mother's Day.
My fella - great husband and father!!

Hi everyone! I'm writing this in the midst of a Summer storm; so I'll type quick; read quick!! I hope you all have had a great week! Things are good here. We miss Tim so much; he is in the Amazon on a missions trip. He has called about three times and there have been over 500 saved and we praise the Lord for that. We can't wait to see him; I'll post some pictures of the trip soon.

There are a few things going on this week/weekend. First, today is our oldest daughters birthday. Happy 21st Birthday to you, Brittney. It seems impossible she is 21. I remember the day I found out we were expecting; the day they laid her in my arms for the first time. She is in Virginia; so I had one of her friends, Jen, deliver her the birthday cookie/balloons we got for her. She had a desk full of goodies, gifts from friends, work. People took her out for her birthday at lunch. We'll celebrate more when she is home next month!! We love you honey and are very proud of you!

This Sunday is Father's Day. It made me begin to think of the men that the Lord has placed in my life. I'll begin with Mom's Father, Paul Denney. He died when I was ten but I remember him very much. They lived on a farm in Georgia and he was a hard worker. He had a big tractor he drove but he wouldn't let the granddaughters on it (I wasn't happy either). It was only for the grandsons! I look forward to seeing him in Heaven. Next is my Dad's Father, Clarence Vines. He died almost three years ago quickly. He was a pistol; he loved Southern Gospel music and he/Granny went from singing to singing. He was a bright spot in my life; I'll never be the same without him on this earth; Heaven will be amazing. This man loved life, he laughed all the time and made us laugh all the time.

Next is my Dad. What a man! He is an amazing man in my life. God knew exactly what I needed in a Father. I certainly can't do him justice in a blog except to say how much I love him and how proud I am of him. He was a Pastor and I've seen him in many situations and I have never, ever seen him act unbecoming and that left a mark in my life. What people saw in the pulpit was what was at home. Not perfection; just real. To treat people kindly as best as we're able to. I strive to do that in my life. There are many memories from growing up; sweet, fun times. I am so glad he is my Dad and I love him dearly and will tell him again these things!

Next is Tim's Dad. Tim's Dad is an Evangelist. Tim was born into a Godly home. We have a wonderful heritage. Tim has a wonderful Father.

Next is my brother, Jim. I am the oldest; then the twins were born, then Jon. Jim/Jodi/I are 18 months apart (my poor Mother!!). Jim and I fussed and fussed as little kids; I "was" the oldest, you know. He didn't care :) He is a great man with four children who adore him. I honor him this weekend too.

Next is my baby brother, Jon. I was six when he was born. I am his second Mother (so I'm told). He's a mess; so loveable. He is Daddy to Carson, almost three who clearly looks just like him and squeals with excitement when he sees his Daddy. Happy Father's Day Jon!

I saved my Tim for last. You date someone and think they will be a good Daddy; you watch them with children; hoping, searching for someone to treat you like your Daddy did. I found that man when I met Tim. See, we met at church and dated/married in 11 months. I knew he was a good man but the longer we're together; the more I realize how blessed and honored I am to have him as my husband and the father of my children. He is a wonderful Daddy to little girls. He played Barbie's, Pretty Pretty Princess, taught them to ride bikes, wiped tears during teen years, was at every game to watch them cheer or play basketball (unless gone preaching). He's a hands-on Dad. Our girls adore their Father and so do I. Happy Father's Day Tim. We are blessed.

Went out with some girlfriends last night for dinner. Lisa and I shopped all day and I mean it was a marathon shop day! Whew! We started losing steam and then met up with Sherry and Tammy (sisters) at Carrabba's and got rejuvenated. Lisa is new to our church and her family is precious. She has a daughter Ashlyn's age and a junior high son. She is a "Minister's Kid" from Jacksonville, Alabama and we clicked/bonded real quick. We had a great time. I'm thankful for my friends!

This is silly compared to the rest I've written ... but ... I did buy a new dining room table centerpiece this week. I hope you like it!

Honor your Father's this weekend. Begin with thanking our Heavenly Father for all He's done in our lives. I hope you have a good rest of the week.

Master Carson

2008-06-07T17:48:00.001-07:00

Hi everyone! My blogs are becoming far and few between. I'm sorry for that! Summer is here; no set schedule (which is great) and I've been lagging on my posting. Ashlyn is thrilled to be out of school. She has already begun cheerleading practice with tumbling, practices; but it gives her another chance to be with her girlfriends (as if that isn't happening all the time). She is going to be a junior; it doesn't seem possible. Brittney will be down for vacation the end of June; we are heading to the beach. Last year we went to Water Color in Destin; which was amazing; this year we are going to the Gulf; we are so excited. We are beach girls.

Please pray for my sweet husband. He is leading from our church a missions trip to the Amazon. They left this week; I miss him soooo much. All is well. This is his first time to the Amazon area. They are on a houseboat that will be going from village to village sharing the amazing gospel of our Lord Jesus. I'm so proud of him. Please pray for their safety, many souls to be saved.

Master Carson came for a visit two weekends ago. He's 2 1/2 and wow ... a sweet little mess. He was so sweet. We had so much fun. He is my baby brother, Jon's son. He and Jon got here and Carson got out of the car saying "Joy". What a SMART little boy!! He saw his Uncle Tim, cousin Ashlyn. We cooked out, went swimming, went to the park. We watched the movie "Nemo" a million times ... he loves "Nemo". He's a wonderful boy. He is so tender-hearted, great sense of humor. He reminds me so much of his Daddy and he looks JUST like his Daddy. We had a great time; we hope to head up that way next. Here are several pictures from the weekend. Enjoy! Have a great week!

P.S. The picture of Carson pointing (Jon is holding him) ... we were looking at the ducks. He wanted to be WITH the ducks in the water; wherever, it didn't matter. We had to hold his hand hard or pick him up so he wouldn't get in the water with the ducks.

The Life & Times of the Williams

2008-05-22T21:49:00.001-07:00

Hi everyone!! Sorry for the delay in blogging. There has been alot going on. I told you I'd blog about Brittney's college graduation. We had an incredible weekend. We got there on Thursday afternoon and picked up Brittney and went out to dinner. Ashlyn stayed with Brittney all weekend for some sister time. Friday we went around campus, Brittney had grad practice; family started coming in. We had a relaxed day. That evening we all met up at Brittney's favorite restaurant in town for a family graduation dinner. We had such a nice time just being together and honoring her. From there we all headed to the church for Baccalaureate. Dr. Tim LaHaye was the speaker and did a wonderful job. After this we went for ice cream with my brother, Jim and his wife, Leslie. We woke up Saturday morning early; the processional began at 8:30 a.m. We had incredible seats; thanks to Dad :) Chuck Norris was the graduation speaker. He did so good. I was trying not to cry; it was on the tip of my eyes all morning. We were so blessed to have Brittney only four rows behind us; so we got to see her very close. Liberty graduated over 4800 students; it was crowded; over 20,000 people were there. When we saw Brittney start walking in the procession; I started boohooing. You say ... she already graduated high school; this isn't anything new. Yes ... BUT this is still different. This is a different finality ... she's done with school, out more from our umbrella of protection, off to a new career; on her own and I'm not ready :( She is!! That's good. That is the way God intended it to be, I know this in my head. It's my heart that's causing the trouble. Brittney got to sit by two of her best friends; Jen and Dave. When they moved their tassels, Brittney teared up which didn't help me ONE bit!! After graduation we headed out to Britt's favorite Japanese restaurant. From there we went and hung at her apartment; then went to a graduation party with several of Brittney's friends. We got to meet parents; we had a great time. Most of the family members had to head back home. We spent one more night; we couldn't leave!! On Sunday morning, we headed home. I hated leaving her; she was sad to see us leave. It was a great, memorable weekend we'll never forget. We are so proud of both of our girls. God has richly blessed us. The pictures are of various things from graduation weekend ... some are from her graduation dinner. You must notice the Barbie she received. This girl owned every Barbie ever made. She played Barbie's almost every day of her little life. She had the motor home, Barbie house, beds, clothes; massive story lines; weddings between Barbie/Ken; fusses, church, you name it. When Tim and I saw this; we had to have it!

I wanted you to see my pretty flowers that are blooming. Tim/I went to Home Depot last weekend and bought some flowers for my hanging pots on our fence. They are so pretty. See my Gerber daisies? Those are some of mine, the girls favorite flowers.

We celebrated this week Tim's birthday. We took him to Long Horn's; that is where he wanted to go. We had a good time together.

Remember in a previous post I had showed you something I bought from Stein Mart? Wa la ... Tim put it up in our Master Bath. I LOVE it. It is right at my jacuzzi tub. When I soak now; I will be reminded (not that I needed it) to RELAX. No problem. A bubble bath is my best friend. These are the niftiest things; I am thrilled with it.

I pray everyone has a nice weekend. We've got family coming in this weekend; so I'll blog soon. God bless you!

Fun on the Farm

2008-05-06T10:17:00.001-07:00

Brittney did something fun this weekend. They had their first annual "Senior BBQ at the Falwell Farm". This was at Jerry Jr. & Becky Falwell's home. All the seniors were invited to attend. They brought chairs, could swim in the lake, had a bonfire, ate. They had so much fun. Brittney has been around the Falwell's on several occasions and has really grown to respect them very much. She also attends Thomas Road BC and loves to hear Jonathan Falwell preach. She loves her church. Here are a few shots from the BBQ. The first photo shows Jerry Falwell Jr. in the middle.

Busy? Ya think?

2008-05-06T09:41:00.001-07:00

Hey everyone! Happy Tuesday to you. It was another busy weekend. I'm not so sure when I haven't had a busy weekend!! We had a good one, though. We started off the week with Ashlyn having cheerleader tryouts. Even though she cheered last year; that does not assume a spot automatically. She had tryouts and did great. She made it and we are thrilled. She's a great leader and will be an asset to the squad.

Friday night was her big graduation banquet. Since high school, the Williams girls tradition has been to have a "primp day" and skip school all day. Ashlyn slept in, we went to get a manicure/pedicure, went to the tanning bed, lunch at Sonic, then went to get her hair done. We got home and had a little time to chill. Friends came over and we got the girls ready! They were stunning. Ashlyn wore a lovely deep plum dress this year. The boys came and picked up the girls and we headed to the Robert Trent Jones Golf Club and took pictures. From there we left and headed up to see the decorations/take more pictures. Ashlyn/Ben looked so cute together. They did an all-nighter - the youth went to Shades Mountain Baptist Church and got home Saturday morning @ 5:00 a.m. She went straight to bed and we didn't see/hear from her until @ 2:30 Saturday afternoon.

Saturday night we went to the school's Sports Banquet. Ashlyn cheers and plays basketball. She was given certificates in both but received a trophy for her leadership in cheerleading. We were proud of her. Then she went over to Ben's with some friends and hung out. Don't know how these kids can do what they do ... all that energy. I remember :)

The pictures above are from cheer tryouts, the banquet and the sports banquet. Pray for us as we leave Thursday for Lynchburg and will be driving home on Mother's Day. Pray for safety while traveling, graduation, etc. We are soooo excited! I surely don't look old enough to be a mother of a college grad - RIGHT?!? Ha ha!! Don't care; I'm so proud of our girl.

See ya!! Joy

P.S. I'm noticing the pictures are not in order; I thought I had put them that way. Just "envision" that they are in order in the events that it happened :)

Slow Down Time!

2008-04-30T15:05:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone! Just a quick post. So much is going on. Ashlyn has cheerleading tryouts tomorrow. She cheered last year and is excited about the possibility to cheer again.

My title of "Slow Down Time" has to do with the picture above of Ashlyn looking at class rings. She'll be a junior this year and it's time to order her class ring. We received the catalog this week from the rep of Herff-Jones and my goodness, there are sooo many choices compared to "my time". I think we had 4-5 rings to chose from; now there are pages and pages of choices. We had fun looking and she found exactly what she wanted. She wouldn't look at the camera because "Mom I look awful". But I wanted to freeze this moment. Two years left until college ... don't think I'm not counting!

Is this little outfit not the cutest? The Williams family is expecting the first great grand-child. Tim's Daddy is 80. Reagan and his wife, Mandy, are expecting Miss Ryleigh Caroline Williams, due next weekend. The youngest Williams grandchild is Ashlyn who is 16; so it's been 16 years since we've had a baby around. We are all so excited! A sweet friend of mine, Tiffany, makes the most cutest baby clothes. She monograms, does all types of things. I wanted to show you what Miss Ryleigh will get to wear for next Summer. If you like Tiffany's work; let me know. She takes orders, she is very busy. She does shows, all types of things. She has a cute little business called "Tiffany's Toodles". Cute! If you want any more information on her; let me know and I'll hook you up.

Have a great week! Joy

2008-04-25T21:22:00.001-07:00

Week of Heaven!

2008-04-25T20:58:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone! Has everyone been doing good? I hope so. We are doing good. We got back last weekend from Perdido Beach. We had so much fun; we did not want to come home. Ashlyn's youth choir had a quick choir tour; Tim preached for it. They had a good week. I headed on down early to Perdido and had a day to myself on the beach before they came in that Wednesday night. There was hardly anyone on the beach; which is wonderful; because we know how it gets in the Summer. I don't know about you all; but I can do some great thinking, mind clearing laying on a beach. It's one of the most calming things I do in my life. If I have any problems going on; by the end of a beach week; it's OK and the Lord has spoken to me and helped me sort things out. Anyway ... we stayed at a small condo; a two bedroom/two bath; it was just right for the three of us. Brittney wasn't here this Spring Break. She'll be with us this Summer for our beach trip.

We enjoyed the beach, laying out, walking on the beach, Ashlyn and I eating our shaved ice. We went out to eat at night; then would go to the outlets or beach shops and just hang around. We headed back to the condo, turned on the radio (Delilah Love Songs - ahhhhh) and would open up the patio doors and sit and listen to the waves. It was glorious. We ate the first night at The Original Oyster House; then the second night at The Crab Trap in Perdido. Both were great!

We came back to reality; which we were not ready for. School started back, work, cooking :( - ha ha. Tim drove to Huntsville, Alabama for a revival and had 28 saved; isn't that wonderful? On his way home Thursday; he met and had breakfast with Phil Waldrep then headed home. Thursday night, we met Ashlyn and her boyfriend, Ben, at the new Mexican restaurant in town for supper. It was really good.

Oh and Tim had given me an HOUR LONG MASSAGE as part of my Valentines gift. Another piece of Heaven to this girl! We have a great spa in town called Smart Skin Spa and I entered into the candle-lit, quiet music playing room and chilled for one hour. I was like a dish rag when Kasi got through with me. I called Tim right after I did it and he said my words were slurred I was so relaxed!! I will definitely do that again. I think I'd like to commit to at least four times a year - yes?

I pray everyone has a great week. There are people around us hurting. Ask the Lord to help you minister to someone today.

Here are pictures above from our vacation. Enjoy!

Our Brittney Joy

2008-04-14T20:30:00.001-07:00

I wanted to do this blog on Brittney before graduation. It is coming in a few short weeks and I knew as time got closer; things will get hectic; our traveling up there, activities. I wanted to do this blog with plenty of time to reflect, write.

I posted a few pictures; only a few out of thousands we have. I wanted to share these with you. I can certainly tell you that these pictures seem like they were taken yesterday. As I look at them, I am remembering each thing about that age, where we were, what she was like. This is to honor our first born who is at the crossroads of life. She has always loved school, did well in school, has had many friends. She said recently "I can't imagine not ever having any homework again". She is so excited about that.

Brittney Joy came into our life the Summer of 1987. She was a "surprise" to us; but not to God. We had only been married 18 short months. She changed our world! We were so thrilled when she was born. She was the first grandchild on my side of the family and the first girl born on the Williams side in 35 years. She was cherished! I had never been a Mommy before; I had no clue what to do with her. Tim went overseas three weeks after she was born; I packed bassinet and all and headed to Dad and Mom's for three weeks. I needed HELP!! They kindly obliged. She did everything early ... crawled at six months; walked at 11 months. Talked early, she was so smart. She loved to be read to; we read most nights of her early growing up years. She was a Mommy's girl. Wherever I was; there she was. She adored her Daddy. When he would leave to travel; she would cry and cry; which made me cry. She learned through the years that Daddy would always come back.

She began K-4 at Highlands Baptist Church in Jacksonville, Florida. She went three mornings a week. She thrived there; I missed her terribly. She began K-5 in Callahan and went there through 5th grade. I boohooed the first day of school. My little buddy wouldn't be around to hang with Mom. Baby Sis Ashlyn had been born by then; so I wasn't alone. She began taking dance lessons, she cheered Pop Warner, was in GA's. She loved life and was a delight. At age six when Kelly Green was at our church in a revival, she wanted to ask Jesus into her heart. Late one evening, we knelt down beside my bed and I heard that precious little voice ask Jesus to save her and to forgive her of her sins. It's a night I'll never forget. Her Daddy had the honor of baptizing her several weeks later.

In 6th grade we put her in Trinity Christian Academy in Jacksonville. This was a new school. She knew a few girls from FBC, Jacksonville. I remember wanting to walk her up to her new classroom and she said "Mom, I can do it by myself." I stayed in the car and watched her walk away and cried. She did so great at TCA; she graduated from high school there. She cheered, was involved in everything, was a Senior Superlative. We watched our little girl turn into a young woman. She had said for a long time she wanted to go to Liberty University. We began praying for God's will in her life in this college decision. The Lord allowed her to attend Liberty; where she said it's been the "best years of her life". We've seen her grow and mature into a wonderful young woman. Now, here we are at the last few weeks of school and I have been reflecting back ... alot. See, I'm struggling letting her go "more" ... a job, apartment, financially on her own (I should be happy, right?!?), making her way. I cry tears of happiness of the young woman she is becoming, so proud of her love for the Lord.

Did I mess up? Oh, boy, did I. I lost my cool when I shouldn't have, I yelled too much at times, I said things I regret; I asked for forgiveness. But when I look at our first born, almost 21, I see God's hand upon her and realize, that with His help; alot was done right - thank the Lord. Our prayer for Brittney is to be the best woman for Christ that she can be, live for Him, seek Him in all she does, pray for God's perfect mate choice for her life. We tell her all the time that if she'll do it God's way; she'll never regret it.

This blog is in honor of our first born Brittney. Congratulations on your college graduation. We love you and are so proud of you. You are loved.

Here is explanation of the pictures above. My scanning isn't so hot; you can click on the picture to enlarge it!

1. Brittney's first Easter - 10 months old
2. Dad & Mom with Brittney - K4 Graduation
3. Brittney's Christmas picture - 2 years old
4. Brittney's dance recital picture - 4 years old
5. Brittney, Ashlyn and I - Thanksgiving - Brittney 4 1/2; Ashlyn 2 1/2 months.
6. Brittney - 1 year old
7. Brittney and I - going to hear her Daddy preach in revival (1 years old)
8. Brittney and her Daddy - 1 year old
9. Brittney - painting - 2 years old

Brittney's Junior-Senior at the Hotel Roanoke

2008-04-13T17:52:00.000-07:00

Spring Break take me awaaaaaayyyyy!

2008-04-11T19:11:00.000-07:00

Hi everybody! It's been another busy week. I worked up at the school two days; then ran around like a crazy person the other days. So much has been going on and is coming up. I have posted several pictures of various things for fun. Last weekend Ashlyn and I went shopping in Birmingham at the Galleria. We made a day of it and then stopped in Alabaster on the way home and shopped at the Old Navy. We had fun! Tim and I joined the choir. I've been in the choir most of my days. I got out of it for about a year and a half. It was nice to be back.

I began addressing Brittney's grad invitations this week and I had a hard time. We are so very proud of her; she has accomplished so much in her college years. She's been offered two jobs; blog on that coming later. The Lord has opened up some really neat doors for her. I'm grappling with "is my work done?" I hope so; I hope not. I hope so in that we've raised her to be a strong, independent young lady and that she is. She loves the Lord, lives for Him. The Lord has amazing things in store for her. Anyway ... for some reason as I've been addressing these invitations, I keep seeing her as a little girl running to the car after school; ready to tell me all about her day. I would have a snack, juice pack ready and waiting in the car. You see, I didn't work as the girls have been going to school. No matter where you stand on that issue; I've counted it one of my greatest joys to be home. Have I missed the work force? Not on your life. I worked at home, thank you very much! Just this week as I was sadly thinking about how our girls are growing up; I heard Dennis Rainey on Family Life talking about a new book his wife, Barbara Rainey and Susan Yates have written called "Barbara and Susan's Guide To The Empty Nest". I know I've got two years until Ashlyn graduates; but I'm getting prepared. I ordered the book from Family Life. I've already got a buddy waiting in the wings to read it next!

These pictures show Ashlyn & I heading to Birmingham; we LOVE the cute way Victoria Secret decorates their store/dressing room area. I am showing you our new lamp, rug, Brittney's plates, silverware. Also is a picture of Brittney from her recent cruise.

Ashlyn leaves tomorrow for choir tour then we head to the beach for a few days. We are so ready and very excited! I'll share that when we return.

Tim & I spent the day together today. We have a new Tuesday Mornings. Ever heard of that place? I love it. Brittney is beginning to add some things for her apartment. She had found some plates at Kohls and was buying bit by bit. I found the bowls, cereal bowls today at Tuesday Mornings dirt cheap and found her some pretty silverware. We also found this pretty rug, lamp. We put the rug in our front entry way and our lamp in our gathering room.

Enjoy your weekend. Here is something neat I saw this week ... "When God permits His children to go through the furnace experiences of our lives, He keeps His eye on the clock - and His hand on the thermostat!" LOVE THAT. God bless your day! Think of me next week soaking up the rays and sipping on my Crystal-Light induced water on the Emerald Coast!

I'm Alive!!

2008-04-03T20:38:00.000-07:00

I know I haven't blogged much this week. It's been a busy week! Tim just got home from revival in Georgia; he had a great week. I have been working at Ashlyn's school some in the front office. I enjoy it alot. I love the kids; there is so many chances to minister, listen to teenagers. All because it's a Christian school does not mean they are all from Christian homes. I hear, see some sad situations and it burdens my heart. Ashlyn has had a stressful week. She's been disciplining a new Christian who has many, many problems. We began noticing it was taken a toll on Ash and began talking/praying with her about it. It breaks my heart to even think about what this young girl is dealing with. While we are trying to be a good, Christian example, we've had to distance Ashlyn from this girl and it's so sad. Ash is worn out emotionally. My heart has been burdened this week. I want to make it all go away for this girl but I know only the Lord can help her. Our Ash loves her friends so deeply and it hurts her but she's learned a valuable lesson this past week about where to draw a line with helping a friend. You can be there for a person, pray with/for a person, but you can't let them consume you totally. I just uplift this sweet girl to the Lord because without Jesus she'll never make it.

Our oldest is getting ready to graduate in a few weeks from Liberty. She has so many things going on. She is handling things beautifully. She has some job offers that she is praying over. I can't believe she'll be completely "on her own" soon. Even though she's lived away during her college years; we always were still in large part responsible for her financially and now that will change and it's an odd feeling. Not that we would never help her; please ... :) but those strings will be cut more and is she ready? Have I taught her everything she needs to know to make it in this world? I sure hope so. She is so driven and a such a hard worker; I know she will make someone a wonderful employee. I can't share just yet what the job situations might be; soon ... It's just another gentle reminder of "giving her back again" to the Lord and trusting Him totally with our girls lives.

Check out my cute new shoes from Payless. I love to shop; I'm a shopper. LOVE IT! I buy from all over the place. These are so cute and so comfortable. I wore them to church last night with khaki colored capri pants, a brown jacket and tank underneath. I got so many compliments on them.

Ashlyn and I are heading out to shop in Birmingham on Saturday. Tim flies out for a Board Meeting in Dallas.

We head to the beach in about two weeks for Spring Break. Ashlyn's youth choir will be on choir tour the first 1/2 of the week; then we head to Perdido Beach - HEAVEN!

Check out my cute shoes above and I got my hair cut!

I'll leave you with something I read this week that ministered to my heart. "In the midst of the darkness you will learn lessons you might never have learned in the day. We all have seen dreams turn to ashes - ugly things, hopeless experiences - but beauty for ashes is God's exchange. Offer yourself to God and ask for a spirit of praise so your whole being will be restored."

Easter Sunday

2008-03-24T12:04:00.000-07:00

We had a nice, kind of quiet Easter weekend. We basically hung around the house and just relaxed. We go so fast most of the year; it was nice to do not much! We had a great day at church Sunday. We opened the service up with baptism; this is what it is about. Bethany, Ashlyn's friend, was baptized. It's been so great to see her growing in the Lord. I had cooked a good meal that we enjoyed. We were invited to some friends home later that afternoon; but we fell asleep and woke up late!

Here are a few shots of Ashlyn. Brittney is up at school; she didn't get home from her cruise until @ midnight early Sunday morning. I'll post some photos from her cruise on here when I get them from her. She had a ball.

God bless your Monday.

Cool things

2008-03-14T21:20:00.001-07:00

I found two really neat things this week. One is the Scotch Brite Cook Top Cleaner. It has a neat handle and pad; it removes stuck-on food, scrubs, cleans and polishes. I've not actually tried it yet; but my girlfriend loves hers. My cook top is pretty clean but I do have a slight "burnt" looking ring around one of mine; so I thought I'd try it. I'll let you know how I like it.

The second thing I found today. My hubby and I were at Stein Mart (our favorite store) and I was looking in the frame area and saw this ... it's so neat. It is called "Once Upon A Wall". It is vinyl lettering that appears to be hand-painted. Easy to apply and easy to remove. They had several different "statements" that you put on your wall and it gives your wall the look of words painted on your wall. I called our daughter Brittney. She's in the beginning throes of picking out colors for her apartment (fixing to be on her own and making her way in this world) ... can't start boohooing here ... that's coming ... anyway, I called her and told her about it. She was like "that is so great". I bought her one. Her wall word-mural will say "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away." I love that saying! They have all types ... ones for babies rooms, kitchen, welcomes, one I am going to go back and get next week to put above my jacuzzi tub is "Relax" ... ahhh ... no problem there! They range from $14.99 to $19.99. I have posted a picture of what the container looks like. I can't wait to see it on Britt's wall. When I get the "Relax"; I'll take a picture and post it.

Everyone ready for Easter Sunday next weekend? Is it earlier this year? Seems like it. I gave Brittney her Easter basket last weekend while we were up there. She'll be with Ben's family for Easter. I prefer all my Easter "bunnies" with me :) Tim, Ash and I will spend it together. I've got a Easter menu planned: honey spiral ham, mashed potato bake, lima beans, cream corn, rolls, dessert.

I just threw in a recent picture of Ashlyn for fun!

We just had gotten word that a tornado had hit downtown Atlanta. I e-mailed my brother, Jon, and he, my brother Jim, Jim's son Jay who are from Tennessee had come down to watch the basketball championships. They were in the Georgia Dome when the tornado hit. Jon said it sounded like a war zone. They are fine; thankfully. He took some pictures from his cell phone and it was horrible.

Everyone have a great weekend!

College visit

2008-03-12T09:27:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone - hope the week is going well. All is great in Alabama! Ashlyn and I just returned from a fun weekend with Brittney in Lynchburg. We left on Thursday morning and drove ten hours. Britt is a senior at Liberty University and will graduate in May. We stayed at Brittney's apartment. We had so much fun! We met many of Brittney's friends; saw some we already knew. Ben came and hung with us some; he works alot of hours and is also taking classes. Friday morning Ash & Britt went to Convocation (campus chapel), then to a class. I met the girls on campus and we went to lunch with Carol Godwin. Carol's son, Ben and Brittney are dating. We had a wonderful lunch. It was pouring down rain. After lunch, we went back to LU and went to the bookstore and looked around the campus. That night we went out to a great restaurant called Neighbors. We took one of Brittney's best friends, Meghan, with us. We slept in on Saturday and then went shopping. We had to find Britt a dress for the Junior-Senior they will be having this Spring. It is a black/white affair; we found her a lovely dress. That night both girls had homework to do; so we got Japanese take-out and hung around the apartment. We came home on Sunday. I didn't take as many pictures as I wanted to; the weather wasn't so great. Here are a few I did take. Enjoy!

Attitude

2008-03-10T11:16:00.001-07:00

Hi everyone! We have been gone all weekend. We went to see Brittney; our daughter at Liberty University. After driving ten long hours home; I didn't go to church last night. I did watch Dr. Mac Brunson, Pastor of FBC, Jax. He did an amazing job. He was preaching on "Sail To Success" ... about attitudes. Here are some points he said. Hope they minister to you like they did me. I will blog later about our trip to see Brittney!

*Get up in the morning with a good attitude. I've always heard don't get up saying "Good Lord, it's morning". Get up saying "Good morning Lord".

*Attitudes hurts or heals relationship with others. How we feel about someone can make or break our relationship with them.

*You can turn your failures into successes. What you feel are failures in your life can sometimes be made into success stories.

*Start out your life well ... end the race well. The decisions you make in the beginning of your life can come back around years down the road. This is so true. The older I get; the more I know this to be true.

*Turn problems into possibilities. It's all in how you look at a situation.

*Just because I am a Christian doesn't automatically make me right ... ouch ... OK, Dr. Brunson ... step off that foot :) This is true. If we have a wrong attitude in our thinking; we can be wrong. We are not always right.

I've Been Tagged!!

2008-03-02T21:20:00.000-08:00

This is my first time to be tagged. I am excited! Shelley tagged me and I thank her! My book is "Get Out Of That Pit" by Beth Moore. I was told to go to page 123 then go to the 5th sentence then write the next three sentences. OK ... here goes!

"Throughout your ascent out of that pit, never lose sight of the fact that God will forever be more interested in you knowing your Healer than experiencing His healing."

Great words!! I just started reading this book. I'm sure it's good; all her things are. I am going to tag Tracey from Showmestate...ofmind, Kelli from PonderingsofaPastorsWife and Melissa from MelissaMashburn.

Have fun!

A World Away

2008-02-28T16:58:00.001-08:00

Hi everyone! I pray all is going well with you. I am doing fine! It's been a crazy couple of weeks so Tim and I fled the city and went up to Birmingham for two days. It's not far but when you are away you feel like it's a million miles away, don't you? We had a great time. Thanks to some sweet friends who work at Robert Trent Jones; we were able to enjoy the Renaissance Ross Bridge Golf Resort. We had so much fun. We relaxed, slept in, chilled!

We did alot of shopping at all the malls! We ate at Cheese Cake Factory, PF Changs; two of our favorites. We didn't want to come home; but we had to! We are thankful for rest, fun and mostly, each other.

The pictures are of our room at Ross Bridge, the hotel; it looks like a castle, the wonderful pool area and Tim and I at PF Changs.

My Grandmother has been in the hospital this week. We were on call just in case. She will be 94 in May. She had a mild heart attack. She is doing very well and hopefully will go home tomorrow. She's the last of the grandparents to live and we are enjoying our time with her.

2008-02-24T20:39:00.000-08:00

Hi Everyone! We had Comedian Ken Davis at our church today. He was so great; as always. I've heard him so many times and am blessed every time I hear him. He and his wife are so sweet and are the real thing. He preached today on excuses we give as Christians, as to why we don't serve the Lord and witness. Here are the four reasons he gave:

1. I'm A Nobody - let someone else do it. We can rest easy. We are a nobody. God
is looking for a nobody to use. It easily gets me out of the way and lets God
be God and do a work through me. When we realize we ARE nothing without the Lord;
that's when He can truly begin His work in and through us.

2. I Don't Know What To Say - God will tell me what I am to say. He will give me
the exact words I need at the right moment. Why is it we can talk away to family
and friends; but when it comes time to share Christ; we clam up? The times I
have the awesome privilege to lead someone to Christ; I can only sum it up to
that it was all Him; not me. God doesn't want our ability just our availability.

3. I Don't Talk Good - God will perfectly equip me.

4. Send Somebody Else - God tells us in Exodus 3 "no, I've chosen you."

These were of great encouragement to me today. I pray they will be to you too.

Girls Night Out~~

2008-02-23T19:49:00.000-08:00

Hello! Just a quick post ... I've had a great day. Hung out with my daughter today shopping. We had a blast, as always. I went to a movie and dinner with some girlfriends from church. It was so much fun. I didn't take any pictures; wish I had. Next time. I am so blessed to have some sweet friends from church. They just accept me as I am; I know that want to be with me which always makes me feel great. We had great fellowship, great conversation. Hubby is taking me off for a trip for two nights next week to a Robert Trent Jones hotel; so I'll post soon!

Easter is coming!

2008-02-21T12:34:00.000-08:00

I didn't realize Easter is about one month away. For some reason I thought it was in April this year. Two pictures above are of some special Easter baskets that have been our girls. Brittney's first Easter she was ten months old. A precious lady in our church in Jacksonville hand-made these Easter baskets. Her husband also made us a lovely hand-made toy box when Brittney was little. Anyway ... each Vines grandbaby has a wooden Easter basket. Ashlyn's first Easter she was six months old. Each Easter these special baskets have held the girls Easter goodies as we celebrated the resurrection of our Lord and Savior. Many an Easter egg hunt happened ... now we don't color eggs (not because I haven't TRIED) anymore; at ages 16 and 20; they don't want to. I got these out today to spruce the house up for some Spring. They bring back many memories that we'll always cherish. I'll have to post pictures later with the girls as they were small. Just walking down memory lane ...

I also have been scrapbooking some this week. I did each of the girls a K-4 through Grade 12 scrapbook. I completed Brittney's three years ago and had it on display at her graduation weekend. I'm catching up on Ashlyn's 10th grade year. It takes a while; because I stop and look at all the pictures again; cry ... laugh ... journal. Here are two pictures from what I'm doing. I'm almost done!

Enjoy!

2008-02-21T11:54:00.000-08:00

Hi everyone! I hadn't blogged much lately. It's been busy! To begin with; EMCA lost the State Championship. They played a good game; the flu had been messing with several of the girls. It is an honor for them to be first runners-up in the State. They were sad and cried; but were excited knowing what they had accomplished. I'm so proud of each girl. They have truly been a "team". Cheerleading is over ... Basketball is now over ... what do we do with our time now? Well, I've gotten to cook more. Ashlyn is home earlier; I know ... AMERICAN IDOL!! Ashlyn & I are hooked. We already have some favorites. We'll wait and see how they do.

I got a call from my Aunt last week. My Granny Vines is in an assisted living home. It's so nice, they take such great care of them. Granny and a friend (lady) went to the Valentines Dance. Now, let me stop right here ... no Vines from the older generations have EVER danced OK? A few from the younger generation ... maybe :) Granny didn't dance she proudly told me and rather indignant; BUT she went and had fun. She was voted "Best Eyes" and first runner-up in the "Miss Cottage Landing" pageant. I had to hear this for myself. I called my Grandmother; she was giddy with excitement. She'll be 94 in May. She was so tickled; we cut up with her a good bit about this. I'm going to see her soon; I'll post some pictures of that visit.

Ashlyn & I are so excited; we are going to see Brittney up at school. We are so excited. Brittney is making big plans for our time. We look forward to seeing our girl! Pix coming soon!

We live in the Prattville area and our sweet city made the national news this week with the tornados that came through. We knew heading out to church on Sunday that bad weather was coming; but we had no idea what would lay in store for Prattville. That Sunday afternoon we were glued to the TV watching the weather. WSFA in Montgomery did an outstanding job keeping us informed. We called Ashlyn in to be with us (you want your cubs near). The winds began picking up, bad rain, some hail. We knew where we were to go in case ... The news began telling that a tornado had grounded in Prattville. We began seeing pictures on TV of areas where we knew several people. We were so sick. From phone calls beginning from staff - we knew many people in our church had either had minimal damage to having lost everything. It's been a week. Our staff men have been on the grounds all week ministering to people; cooking; passing out food, cutting down trees, prayer, whatever has been needed. My sweet Man has come home so tired and burdened. Much is to be done and we'll get to help these sweet people more as they begin again. No one was killed and it looks like a war zone literally. It's been so humbling to me personally to hear/talk/see friends who have lost and they still praise the Lord, realizing that things can be replaced; loved ones could not. I am humbled and it has made me want to live even closer to the Lord. Please pray for Prattville; clean-up has begun and will take a while.

That's all for now. May God richly bless you. He has us.

I'm gonna wash that gray right out of my hair ....

2008-02-13T21:55:00.000-08:00

I got that rebellious gray out of my hair yesterday. It comes back with a vengenance! My beautician said I hardly have any gray in the back of my head; why must it be in the front around my face?!?

Happy Valentines!

2008-02-13T21:12:00.000-08:00

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO YOU!! I hope you will have time first with the love our your life - Jesus - who is our ultimate love. We opened our Valentines tonight because Ashlyn heads out the door early for school and then we head to her State championship basketball game tomorrow night; so it was going to be a crazy day! We will head out to eat Friday night to celebrate! I posted some pictures for you to enjoy. I made Tim some chocolate-covered strawberries. I am going to take these up to his office tomorrow morning along with a balloon bouquet. I also made some wonderful sugar cookies from a recipe my sis-in-law, Leslie, gave me. It is from the wonderful Blackberry Farms she and Jim enjoy once a year. They are so good. Ashlyn had fun opening her gifts tonight. She loves giraffes; so she got a Beanie Baby Giraffe, a cute Giraffe purse I found at Target and the wonderful "older" movie "Roxanne" ... remember that with Steve Martin and Darryl Hannah? We're going to watch that this weekend. Then of course we can't forget the chocolates!! I had mailed Brittney's Valentine box up to her at school last week and she is/has already enjoyed hers. I miss her being here to open it in front of us. I know ... the main thing is she gets it; but still ... she got chocolates and a gift card; which she LOVED. I posted a recent pix of her ... she just cut off several inches of her hair and I love it; she loves it!

One of the pictures I posted above you will see a brass double-heart. This is something my Daddy bought me when I was 16 years old when we lived in Mobile. My parents have always given us (the four kids) a Valentines. Daddy gave this special to me when I was a teenager. I loved it when I got it and it has been special to me ever since. It represents to me love unconditionally. I was a little rebellious during some of my teen years and his faithfulness of this gift has always reminded me of his unfailing love for me even when I was unlovable. I will cherish this forever!

My sweetie pie went overboard this year. He gave me an HOUR FULL-BODY MASSAGE ... oh yes!!! I'm calling to make that appointment tomorrow. Funny thing; I'm getting him a massage for his birthday! We have a jewelry store in town going out of business and I had held back a piece of jewelry. It is a lovely sage green bracelet. Then he also gave me a piece of razzle jewelry. That little sneak. I was so surprised. I am BLESSED. Not because I got jewelry, etc., but I'm blessed with the man God placed into my life going on 23 years ago.

We met January 1985. I had a broken engagement and was hurt, scared to put myself out there again. I didn't date anyone for about three years. I went out with some duds ... whew :) God moved his family to Florida the same year our family moved to Florida. We didn't meet for three years. Our first date we double-dated and it wasn't so great! The couple we doubled with fussed and we took sides!! We tried it again alone and went from there. We got married December 1985. I knew I loved him when I married him; but our love has grown, grown and grown in these 22 years. We've been through it all. Good, bad, the ugly. God has been faithful! We are best friends. He is an amazing husband, amazing Dad, amazing preacher! I love Tim and am proud of him!

Have a great Valentines!

Here we come State

2008-02-13T13:47:00.001-08:00

Today was EMCA's playoffs against Shelby Academy. We won!! We play for the State championship tomorrow late afternoon. We are so proud of these girls. They are having a blast! Way to go girls!

2008-02-11T14:17:00.001-08:00

Sorry folks; someone I have messed up my blog; will get it fixed soon! Thank you!

Joy

Way To Go!!

2008-02-08T07:17:00.000-08:00

Our EMCA girls Varsity basketball team won their first regional tournament yesterday. We played Ashford Academy. Please understand, our school is only four years old and we didn't win many games last year. To go from this to being undefeated is amazing! We play next week - we play Shelby Academy. If the girls win this; they go to the State play-offs!! Regardless of the outcome, we are so proud of these girls. They are all great girls, have had a great time spirit, workability. Our coaches love these girls. It's not all about what goes on "on the court"; they desire them to be well-rounded young women for the Lord. We are proud. Go EMCA Wildcats!!

Our girls!

2008-02-06T09:57:00.000-08:00

Here are the girls from Destin last Summer. God is good!!

Daily Bread

2008-02-06T09:17:00.000-08:00

Hello ... I am here ... I've been dealing with a sick one. Ashlyn has had the flu since Saturday. She woke up with a high fever, sore throat, bad cough. We went to Primary Care and there were "40" ... yes, 40 people in front of her. We signed her in and headed home for a few hours. She went back to school today. I love having her home. I always enjoyed our girls under Mom's skirt (most days). I rented videos, we hung out and watched movies. I miss her today. I'm glad she is feeling better. There is enough Lysol, Clorox wipe smell in this house to cure the world!! Tomorrow night is her regional tournament. The girls varsity basketball team is kicking it this year! She is so excited. She was the highest scorer in one of last weeks games. Go EMCA Wildcats! She cheered her last game of the year last week.

Our Brittney is doing great. She's in her last semester of college and she's got a load. She's such a task master, great at organizing, she's getting it done. It's hard to believe she's almost done. That will be an entire blog on it's own soon.

Pray for the campus of Union University in Tennessee. A horrible tornado hit their college campus. Our former youth pastor's daughter attends there and through an e-mail he let us know she is fine.

I was driving this morning to get my hair trimmed and heard Nancy Leigh DeMoss on the radio. I love hearing her; she is so pratical, Bible-based. You have to be careful who you listen to out there. I wanted to share what she said this morning. It was a blessing to me and I pray it will be to you.

"Ohhh, I'm stuffed. We eat and get full, then a funny thing happens the next day. Ohhh, I'm so hungry. Our bodies need food every day. When God provided manna in the desert, He told the children of Israel 'I will rain bread from Heaven for you, and the people will go out and gather a day's portion every day.' Each person had to gather his own manna, he couldn't save any overnight, except the day before the Sabbath. Collecting the bread was a daily thing. That's a picture of our relationship with the Word of God. Just like our bodies, our souls require daily food. I cannot become the woman God wants me to be if I'm not spending time in His Word each day. Yesterday's nourishment isn't good enough. I need a fresh taste today. When is the last time you filled up on the Word of God?"

This really ministered to me today. How many times has the Lord gotten my seconds? Thirds? Trying to live off what I read several days ago. I need a fresh word from my Lord every day; His mercies are new every morning. Lord help me to be more faithful to your Word.

Please pray for a friend of mine. We met at 17 years old and have been friends all these years. She lives in Georgia. Just pray for a family member. God knows and that's all that matters. She needs an extra touch from the Lord during this time. Thanks!

Enjoy the pictures. One is of my Mom and Ashlyn at a basketball game. The other is Tim and Ashlyn.

May God bless your day.

WHAT??

2008-02-02T13:39:00.001-08:00

What in the world is that french-looking stuff doing at the front of my blog? Not trying to impress with that; don't know where that came from :) Tracey - I need help with my blog. Help a sista out!!

Hello!

2008-02-02T13:28:00.000-08:00

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Hi everyone! I haven't blogged in a little while; thought I'd catch up. I've been really busy but am having a good time! My Mom came to visit last weekend. I met my Dad half-way and got Mom. We had a great time. She got to see Ashlyn cheer, play basketball, sing in the youth choir. We went shopping, eating, she ate up all our Slim Bear Klondike bars and she is SKINNY as all get out!! I look at a Klondike bar and gain five pounds. I give up! I took her back home on Monday. We enjoyed Memaw coming! This week has been crazy. Ashlyn's varsity basketball team is undefeated. We have had games most of the week. They won each time. We won last night; which means EMCA won the division. A big shout out to the girls! Now they move on to the regionals this week and then State, if they continue winning. This is a huge deal for our school. Our school is only four years old; so we are proud!! I worked at the school this week in the Office. I enjoy doing that; it was very busy but the day went by fast.

Today, Ashlyn and I had big plans to spend the day together. She came downstairs mid-morning and had a horrible cough, a fever and sore throat. We took her to the Primary Care in town and there were ONLY 40 people in front of us. Can you believe that?!? They gave us a beeper and we came home. Tim took her back about an hour ago; I'm anxious to see what's wrong with our girl. Please pray for her!

Brittney flew to Jacksonville yesterday with some friends to attend part of the FBC, Jax Pastor's Conference. She enjoyed seeing my brother, several friends. She had a good time. She returned home late last night.

OK - that's it for now. Remember ... God is good and when we don't understand what He's doing; just trust. Love - Joy

Snow Day

2008-01-23T15:39:00.000-08:00

Well well ... it did what I thought it wouldn't do ... it snowed in Alabama!! We were blessed with a long weekend and we were looking forward to some r/r. Even though I had hoped it would snow for Ashlyn; I seriously didn't think it would. It was snowing at Liberty where Brittney attends; it was snowing where my parents, brother live. Around 8:30 a.m. on Monday morning, Ashlyn came running into our bedroom and said "It's snowing". I looked out the blinds and it was just beginning to. It was so pretty. I had seen snow as a little girl growing up in Rome, Georgia. Later that morning we got dressed and headed out. Ashlyn immediately began throwing snow balls at Tim & I; we did get her back too!! It was so much fun. We got into the car and drove around the city to see how it looked. Sadly, it didn't last very long; but we sure did enjoy it while it lasted! Thanks for the memory Lord! Pictures are posted above. ENJOY!

Bahama Mamma!

2008-01-16T10:15:00.000-08:00

Where have you been? I've only been in the Bahamas. I know ... I am back in Alabama and even though I'm glad to be home; it is hard to leave gorgeous turquoise, sandy-bottomed beaches.

We left last Sunday for a January Bible Cruise. We drove to good ole Jacksonville. It was great to see my former home town. Brought back wonderful memories ... Tim and I met/married there; we had both girls in Jacksonville, etc. We got on board the Carnival Celebration and headed out! Our first stop was Freeport, Bahamas. It was very nice. We went around a little; then Ashlyn and I headed back to the boat to sit out in the sun. The next day we were at Half Moon Cay; which is a private-owned island owned by Carnival. Absolutely gorgeous. The water was breath-taking. Several of us could dig our toes into the sand and find whole sand dollars. They were plentiful. You know me ... I have a story to tell ... Tim had rented these huge intertubes to "sit" in the Sun all day. Well now, I'm short-legged and fluffy and getting onto it was not going to happen. I have forgotten to mention half of our staff was also on this cruise. We all had beach chairs together and so they were watching this "thing" take place; which made me very self-conscious. Tim could care less; I so could care! We have sweet friends from Georgia waiting way out in the water for us. I begin attempting to get onto my intertube. As I get onto it; I am successful (I forgot Ashlyn was helping me). I begin tilting; trying to get my balance. I go overboard completely ... my legs are flailing in the air; my sunglasses fly about five feet and land luckily into the crystal-clear water. When I come up, the entire gang of staff we were with are laughing hysterically. I was mortified but died laughing! Ashlyn got me back up on it and I floated to Tim and our friends from Georgia. I'm sitting and sitting on it and it's not very comfortable AT ALL. I'm thinking "I'm not sitting on this intertube all day". I tell Tim and our friends that I'm getting off the intertube. I jump out of it into the 8 foot water. As I do, I hang onto my intertube ... well ... the intertube goes flying into the middle of the ocean. Our friend, Lee, has to go swim out and get it. It's heading towards the cruise ship literally. I gave Tim the "this is totally your fault" look (later apologizing). I swim in and get onto my beach chair and didn't budge the rest of the day.

We did have a great time at Half Moon Cay. The next day we woke up in Nassau, Bahamas. Ashlyn and I couldn't get dressed fast enough to go shopping and go to the Straw Market. We rush off the boat; Tim trailing. Found some fun, great buys at the Straw Market. I had been told of a lovely linen shop. We took off looking for that. I bought some lovely organza place mats for our dining room. It was a lovely shop. From there we boarded a small boat and headed to the Atlantis Hotel. WOW. It is amazing. We've decided we definitely want to go back there one day. We got back on the boat and headed out. The next day we were at sea all day heading back to Jacksonville. We all lay in the Sun and drank virgin daiquiries. Yes, I'm ready for Summer now. We got sun and just hung and relaxed. We were in Jacksonville the next morning and headed back home in time to watch the Jacksonville Jaguars.

We had a great week. We met many new friends; preachers and their families. We saw old friends that we didn't know were going; so that was an added blessing. Daddy, Jon and family were on the boat. This was a working cruise for Dad (preaching), Jon (working Dad's ministry table). We would like to go back next year. It is heading out from Mobile. We'd love for some good friends to try to go too ... hint hint!!

World Wrestling Champion ?!?

2008-01-04T21:37:00.000-08:00

Tim and I went to look for a fake Christmas tree today. Everywhere is sold out; can't imagine why. We had called Hobby Lobby and they said we have a few trees left. We flew to Montgomery; the long trip that it is ... enough said on that ... anyhooo ... we are wanting two trees - one for our small sitting room in our kitchen to put all the girls homemade ornaments and their Hallmark ornaments and one tree for our den. I preface this to say neither girl is very happy about this. We are breaking tradition. Our 20 year old said "We'll still just go and LOOK at real trees next year". Back to my story ... we run into Hobby Lobby. We found a nice tree for our small den. A $230 tree for $40; Pappa Tim was very happy. It has twinkling lights and rotates (won't do that - I don't need the extra dizziness). We spot a really big, nice fake tree also 80% off. We see this "woman" in front of it. She proceeds to tell us that this is the LAST one and she's getting it. We ignored her. When the clerk came to help us I simply said "if there are two by chance, we'd like the other one". That's ALL I said. She said "I get the one in the BOX and it IS the last one". Please understand ... I am a Christian woman, a gal born in Gawgia, hospitable, nice, OK? Well ... it didn't set too great with me and Tim saw me beginning to plunge towards this woman. Also ... I'm no beauty queen and I have fluff but this ole gal could have beat us all to death and then sat on us and we'd be dead, OK? Sorry ... facts are facts. So, we gave in ... really wanting this other tree. I didn't want to wrestle her for it tonight. Tim and I got so tickled we had to move aisles.

But the funny thing was ... as we were leaving the parking lot thrilled with our purchase ... the "woman" was huffing and puffing trying to put that big ole tree in her itty bitty car. Normally Tim & I would go and help; but we couldn't stop grinning watching her.

Fake or Real?

2008-01-02T21:20:00.000-08:00

Am I really thinking about getting a fake tree next year? I have always said NO WAY. It's been our family tradition since the girls were born to all four go together and get our Christmas tree the day after Thanksgiving. As the ole fella is getting older (that would be Tim) ... he has hinted for a year or two knowing what I would say. Tonight he was yanking the tree out the back door; grumbling sweetly and before I knew it I heard myself say "Honey, I'd be open to a fake tree for next year." He about fell over the tree. What got into me? I don't know. I've always loved the smell of a live tree; but with so many candles going around our home; the smell is there regardless. Yes ... I'm heading to somewhere tomorrow or Friday to "look" at fake trees. I want a real looking one. We've not told the girls yet. It will not be pretty at the Williams home, I'm afraid!!

Tennessee Christmas

2007-12-30T22:00:00.000-08:00

We took off for Tennessee. We all hit the cabin around the same time. Dad & Mom's cabin was across the street from ours. Very convenient and nice! We had alot of fun. The Vines Christmas is busy, fast-paced, crazy, loud but I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. Lots of kids - whew! There were times Tim and I would get in the car to "drive around" for a few minutes peace! We shopped, went to movies, celebrated Carson's 2nd birthday, Dad and Mom's 70th birthdays, ate, had great time alone with Dad and Mom. Dad goes every morning early to eat breakfast. Anyone is welcome to join him ... around 8:00 a.m. I had the joy to join him and I cherish that alone time with him. As your parents get older you begin to realize the cherish the time you have. We made many fun, happy memories. We love being together. We are all spread out so it's hard to get together (all of us); so we all race to Tennessee at Christmas to enjoy each other. After Tennessee, we headed to Georgia to see Tim's family. It's a much quieter Christmas! We had dinner together, opened gifts, visited. We spent one night and headed home. We have a new little one coming on the Williams side ... Reagan (our nephew) and Mandy are expecting their first child in May. This will be Dr. Williams first great grandchild. I love my family. I have two great brothers and then my special sister, sweet Jodi. Jodi has celebral palsy. She struggles so; we try to keep her upbeat and laughing! I hope everyone had a great Christmas!

Happy New Year!!

2007-12-30T21:47:00.000-08:00

It's been so long since I've blogged. I've done Myspace and Facebook and let this aside; simply because I am still not understanding how to do everything. I'm sitting here at home with the Christmas lights on, music playing and thought to give it another shot! I've been doing alot of thinking today. We had church this morning and not tonight (a nice break for a Minister's family I must admit). Tim/I are alone ... Ashlyn left today with our youth for the Winter Extreme. Brittney left this weekend to go back to school. She and Benjamin want to spend New Years together; then she'll start back work. I began alot of thinking tonight about how we're going to be empty nest in two years (if Ashlyn goes off to school - would love her to stay closer by). Alot of changes have been going on in my life; especially the last two and half years. Our move to Alabama was a big change; Brittney left for college, my Poppo Vines died unexpectedly. His death rocked my world; he was such a bright spot in my life. I've not been very welcoming of these changes to be honest. I've tried; Tim said I've done much better. It's taken time. Wonder why? Tim and I are excited @ what life is going to bring us. I preface that to say ... I've been a Mom many years and I'll always be "Mom" and adore the title but struggling with what will I do now? God is showing me things in my life. I do know I want to be in His perfect will for my life. I want to be a woman that Christ would be proud of. I want to love people with everything I have. I want to be a better wife, better Mom, better friend/sibling, forgive more, minister/serve more but am so unsure of myself at times. I sense I'm rambling but that's OK :) I prayed tonight that 2008 would be a year of just those things. Stay tuned; much more blogging coming - I sense the need to write/type more!!

Things to Come?

2007-07-26T12:52:00.001-07:00

Hi Everyone! I hope everyone's week is going good. I put my husband and 15 year old daughter on a plane today for Nicaragua. Our church is doing a missions trip for a week. I am going next year; I've never been on a missions trip; I was always raising the babies. I'm a little scared to fly; but I must give this over to the Lord - right? YES.

OK - the cutest thing happened the other day that was so darling and cute. I was in a shop and there were two little old ladies (late 70's to early 80's) and they were standing at the cute hair bands that have the darling materials that you tie underneath your hair line. Know what I mean? My girls have tons of them. Anyway, they were looking and them; oohing and aahing. I had smiled at them and was there looking at them and other jewelry. I looked up and one of the ladies had one around her neck and tied like a big bow. She looked at her friend and said "This is cute; but it's a little heavy for my neck. Is this how you wear it?" Her friend said "I think so; but it's wide on your neck and looks funny." I went around the next earring area, dying laughing inside - not AT them but how cute they sounded. I kept kinda watching and they putting them around their necks. I couldn't take it any longer! I said "Actually, my 15 and 20 year old girls wear these and you put them on your head as a headband." I proceeded to show them (on my head) what to do. They were amazed!! We began talking a little bit and they said "we feel so foolish." I assured them they weren't. I walked out of the store after having talked to them for a few minutes with a huge smile on my face. I'm not sure why; just was a sweet moment and wondering will this be ME one day? Probably. Hopefully my girls will help keeping me up "with the style" and how to do/wear it!! God bless you!

Bumble Bee Jewelry

2007-07-22T06:45:00.000-07:00

Good Morning! I want to share with you some precious jewelry I have begun selling. It is for little girls ages 2-10. It is sterling silver, some with Swarvoski crystals. I have bracelets, necklaces, charm necklaces, earrings and rings. I will post some pictures when I get home today. My prices are $8 - $15 plus shipping/handling. If you have a daughter, grand daughter, niece, cousin, need of flower girl jewelry; any occasion; let me know. You will not be disappointed. Several Mothers around my area have purchased from me and LOVE it and have been very pleased.

Vacation

2007-07-21T21:55:00.000-07:00

We went with my brother Jim, Leslie and their four children to Water Color in Destin for the week. The beach is Heaven, you know! We had such a great time. There were ten of us in a darling beach house. We went to the beach, the pool, shopping, eating, shopping ... did I say shop? Making sure :) Brittney came down from Summer school and met us for the week. We had such a great time. Jim/his crew live in Tennessee and we love to be with family as much as we can because we are all so busy. I will post some pictures on here (if I can figure out how to do it - think I'll ask my 15 year old)!!

Our sweet girls

2007-07-21T19:24:00.000-07:00

First blog!

2007-07-21T19:09:00.000-07:00

Hello everyone! This is my first blog. I have several friends/family who does this; so I thought I would give it a try. Hope to hear from many of you!

Joy